Why do men lie? There are many reasons. The lie because it’s in
their blood, because they think that the truth will hurt, because they
don’t think it’s necessary to tell the whole thing with the details,
because they want to seem better than they are, because they want to
make women love them, because they are sure it’ll be better for
everybody and so on. After all “why does he lie” – is not a question of
that big importance. But a woman should become worried if a man starts
to tell the truth. This usually means that something’s going wrong. A
woman should find out the reasons for that sudden sincerity to know
what to do.

When we love we are used not to see the flows of our partner or
not to show that we see them. If fact those flows mean very little when
there’s love in the relationships. But when it’s gone all those
unpleasant details in the character, appearance or behavior start to
annoy us tremendously especially because they have become so obvious
after a long period of not noticing them. That’s when men start
pointing on the defaults of their women in the most rude and unpleasant
way. If a man doesn’t love a woman anymore he doesn’t care whether his
words hurt, if he doesn’t like something he speaks about it as it is
just because he can’t any reasons to stay silent or to lie about it
anymore. For any woman it’s better to leave because any relationships
are supposed to bring care and attention  but not permanent criticism
and discomfort. You may of course stay, swallow your pride, watch your
self-confidence fading away, feel yourself miserable and etc. But ask
yourself is that really what you want?

But of course a woman isn’t meant to quit any relationships after a
couple of critical notices in her address. The reasons why her man
speaks the unpleasant truth can be different. Maybe he’s simply fed up
with one of her very annoying habits. He loves her and he tried not to
pay attention to that feature or habit, but he’s a human being and his
patience isn’t eternal. So if he burst out once that doesn’t mean that
will repeat over and over again. Probably he’s already apologized a
million times and said that he never wanted to hurt her. Well in this
case a woman should start looking closer at herself if she doesn’t want
that explosion if truth to repeat.

 Neither relationships are possible without compromises. And can love make us better if we don’t want to collaborate with it?

Sometimes he seems to love and to care but also he keeps telling
those unpleasant things again and again. A man may compare his
girlfriend with other women and every other woman is always better than
his one. He may criticize her even in public. Probably he even like it.
That all means only one thing – a man doesn’t respect that woman,
because when we respect someone we respect even his or her week points.
And still sometimes we love the people we don’t respect. So it’s up to
a woman to decide whether it’s OK for her always to play a  role of
such a poor-thing which is loved but treated as nothing. She may try to
talk to her man, explain to him that it hurts her to hear all that
truth and that usually people show love in a little different way.
Maybe she should do something to gain his respect of cause it these
relationships mean much for her.

Sometimes a man tells the truth about himself from the very
start to show how independent and indifferent he is, to let a woman
know that he doesn’t care much not about her, not about any other
woman, probably not about anyone but himself at all. Do you really want
someone who’s claiming he will never need you? If you love such an
independent guy you of cause may try to change his mind by conceiving
him that you are the one of kind but see that there’s not much respect
and mutual understanding in such relationships from the beginning.

Another kind of man loving truth so very much is only a
provocateur in fact. He talks much about his past, about the incredible
women he had, about his sexual fantasies the main hero of which is not
his girlfriend. Also he compare her with all the women around and it
always turn out by he’s words that she’s almost nothing compared with
her. A girl should understand that he’s only trying to tease her and to
watch her reaction. She may stay imperturbable and careless about all
these talk or even ask him: “If they are so good than what are you
still doing here?”. And we’ll work. But at the same time she should ask
herself the same question.

One more case when a man tells the truth is when he doesn’t know
what to do with that truth. For example, he’s cheater on his girlfriend
and told her about it because he’s too weak-willed to decide what to
do. He wants his girl to think about it instead of himself.

We all were taught that it’s wrong to lie. So the truth is good,
but not always. Sometimes it’s better not to say or hear a thing.
Everyone is free to decide how much truth in his or her life one is
able to bare.