1 cup Courtesy 1/2 cup Patience 1/4 cup Forgiveness 2 cups Understanding 1 cup Encouragement 2 tsp. Unselfishness Stir in a pinch of Praise . Add a dash of Wit and Humor . Season with Faith and Confidence , Put it in a 16 x 9 pan, bake on 350° for a Lifetime and serve with generous portions of Love and Kindness